Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship – Part 2: Trust

Now, for the next big “secret” of a successful relationship. It’s TRUST!

Trust is a given in any good relationship. Believe me, if there is no trust, it’s like building a house on a foundation of smoldering ashes.

There can be many reasons for a lack of trust in a relationship. I do not have room here to list all of them, but I’ll cover some basic concepts.

Maybe you’ve been hurt before. You cannot open yourself up to the one you are with because someone in your past hurt you. It is not fair to your current partner. They are not the one who hurt you, so they should not be punished. Believe me, it will become an issue. You need to open up to your current mate and let yourself trust them. Most importantly, you need to TALK TO THEM about it. You may just find out that their understanding and patience makes you want to open up to them that much more.

On the other hand, if you are in a relationship and some breach of trust has occurred, you have a very important question to ask yourself: “Will I ever be able to trust this person again?” If the answer is no, you need to tell the other person that the relationship is over, and why. If the answer is yes or even maybe, you need to talk to your mate, and express your concerns about the situation to them. Talking to them about it may help you answer the question above.

Regardless of the situation, or the reasons why trusting the other person may be difficult, a relationship will not last without trust between both partners. Even if there is no breach of trust, it is important to talk openly with your partner about it. Let them know that you trust them, and make sure they trust you as well. Keeping the communication lines open (both ways, not just one way), will go a long way to ensure the relationship be long-lasting and meaningful.

Will Irvin is the author of Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship, available in paperback, hardcover, or as a downloadable pdf. For more information on the book, visit the book website at MissingPiecesTheBook.com

Will is also the Webmaster for Premier Dating Online, a valuable source for Online Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, and Dating Service Reviews. As an active member of the Online Dating Community, as well as the Online Social Networking Community in general, Will brings that same “street-level” perspective into online relationships, online etiquette, and human relationships in general.

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What is True Love?

I recently asked a small child to define love for me and this is what she came up with. She said love is when you see someone sad you try to make them smile and that when you see them cry you reach out and make them stop crying. She went ahead to say a person who loves you will send you presents. According to this little girl, anyone who sends presents to you loves you very much. That to her is what love is. She is not wrong. It is quite easy to tell if someone loves you or not. You can find out in a minute if someone loves you or simply dislikes you that is ofcourse if the person is not trying to put on a show of love yet they do not love you. You can also be able to find out if its true love that you and your partner share or it is just something that closely resembles love.

You should know its true love when you see your partner supporting you in everything you do. The support however should never be one sided. If it is one sided you should know for sure that, that is not true love the two of you are feeling for each other. For every relationship, there should always be a two side to everything. Like some people say, love and friendship is a two way traffic, if it goes on as a one way traffic it is more likely to fail than to succeed. So if you notice that the tow of you support each other in everything that you do, then what the two of you have is true love.

Its true love if you both wait for the right time to do some things. Look at the relationship you are having, are you being forced to do things that you do not really want to do or does he or she respect your decision about things and are they ready to wait forever if they could for you to decide you are ready to take the relationship into another level? If the answer is no, you should know what your partner feels for you is not true love but rather something that resembles love. If someone loves you and for that matter loves you truly, they will never force you to do anything. If you tell them you do not feel like doing something t\hey will not force you, neither will they black mail you into doing it by telling you that if you loved them so much like claim to do, you would do something for them.

What is attracting you to the person, is it the money, or the looks. If neither of this features as number one on your list, then you should know that you love the person truly. Its true love if you are willing to look beyond the person’s looks or financial background. If the person you love also does not look at the looks and money matters then you should be sure that what the person feels for you is true love.

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Factors That Determine Relationship Compatibility

Are you single and looking for someone who is right for you? If you are like the majority of single people you probably have no idea where or how to find someone that would be right for you. You always hear that opposites attract, but is this true? Relationship compatibility has more to do with it than opposites attract.

To find the right person you need to have a fit with that person’s habits, personality, and you have to think the same things are important. There are many forms of compatibility that you should look for in a relationship.

The first compatibility factor is personality. You need to consider if you and your partner have compatible personalities. For instance, if you are laid back and your date is uptight, than your personalities do not match. It is almost impossible to change someone’s personality and this is the most important factor in a relationship, so find someone who shares your personality.

The next compatibility factor is being intimately connected. Intimacy, closeness, and romance play a big role in if you will have a romantic compatibility with your date. The biggest forms of this are public displays of affection. Some people are fine with hugging and kissing in public, but others are not. Not having the same style can have a negative long-term effect on your relationship.

Another compatibility factor is communication. Are you the type of person who likes to talk a lot? Or, are you the type of person who likes to listen a lot? If you are dating someone who is opposite of you than you are probably going to have a successful relationship. However, if you are dating someone who likes to talk or listen a lot and you are the same way the relationship will have problems.

The final compatibility is financial. Are you the person who likes to save or do you like to spend your money? Money is one of the things that couples fight over most. So, if you and your partner have the same financial goals than you are more likely to have a successful relationship.

If you take a close look at your relationship using these relationship compatibility factors you should be able to tell if your current date or if someone in the future is right for you. Pay close attention to your personality, your finances, your communication, and your intimacy, and you should have a good future of relationships ahead of you.

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Make Your Ex Want You Back! Discover the Dirty Psychological Trick Which Will Entice Your Ex!

You are going to get your ex back, but not only this, but you are going to make your ex WANT you back, not vice versa.

What I mean by this, is you don’t want your ex taking you back out of pity, or taking you back because they are selfish. Instead, you want your ex to literally want you back so badly that they will become desperate.

Read on to find out the dirty psychological trick which will entice your ex to want you back….

Step #1: Act as if you hate your ex

This is so dirty, because it literally uses reverse psychology on your ex without them even knowing it. It ALSO almost always makes your ex react positively. Once your ex thinks you hate them, they will feel socially rejected by you, and will begin to feel so lonely.

This void will not be filled by anything else in their life, because humans are psychologically programmed to seek approval from others, rather than from material or other means. What this means, is that your ex will not be able to get rid of this feeling, unless they gain your approval and acceptance once again.

Step #2: Using indirect psychology

If your ex is a narcissist or simply cares a lot about what others think, then you can use indirect psychology to drive them to take action and want you back. To do this, all you have to do is suggest that your ex couldn’t get you back if they tried.

The challenge of “not being able to” do something regarding you will easily be accepted by your ex, because they already feel as though they have conquered you, but will simply want to prove you wrong, because they have an ego to fulfill.

The best way to pull this off is to have your friends say this to your ex, so that your ex really feels as though they socially need to show everyone that they can get you back.

Step #3: Making your ex want you back

To really set things off and make your ex desperately want you back, you can begin giving them the impression that you are dating again, and find someone who is the COMPLETE opposite of your ex.

This will make your ex so jealous, because they will SEE that you have found someone UNLIKE them, and in turn will think there must be something wrong with them, that you don’t desire a person like them anymore.

In turn what will happen, is that your ex will end up being so emotionally enticed that he/she can’t help but want you back, because they will fear being rejected and will fear having to live with the void and lonely feeling you psychologically created.

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Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship – Part 4: Love

Love is not just that fluttering feeling in your stomach when you meet someone new, or when you’re around someone you really like. That is one kind of love, and it is an important part of any romantic relationship. But, that’s not entirely what I’m talking about today. I’m talking about love in general, all forms of it, and the fact that it must be present for any relationship to work. And, I’m not just talking about love from you towards the other person, but I’m talking about you loving yourself.

Self-Love: OK, you in the back, stop snickering. I’m not talking about THAT kind of self-love. I’m talking about the cliche that “if you don’t love yourself, no one else could possibly ever love you.” This is perhaps the last thing that people consider when they are deciding what they are looking for in a relationship, but it is actually one of the most important. If you do not know who you are, and LOVE who you are, it will show in your actions, speech, and mannerisms. People pick up on that, and for the most part, people don’t want to be around people who think so poorly of themselves. Besides, why would someone else like you, if you don’t even like yourself? So, be proud of who you are, embrace it, and put your best foot forward out there looking for relationships.

Love for Others: There are actually several types of love that a person can feel toward a person (or people). The main three types of love are unconditional love, brotherly love, and romantic love.

Brotherly love: This is the love and comaraderie that you feel when you are with your friends. It signifies the good times you share together, and it signifies the bond that you feel with them in all circumstances. It’s the reason you pick up the phone to talk to them when you’re feeling troubled about something, or when you get that new promotion, or have a date with someone special. It is a must for any successful friendship.

Romantic Love: Now, we’re back to that fluttering feeling in your stomach. This is the love that you feel toward your spouse, lover, or life partner. It is what’s commonly referred to as being “in love”. It is usually strongest at the beginning of a relationship, but it is possible to keep that spark alive, which is something I will be covering in a future article. Although not a must-have for a romantic relationship to survive, it certainly makes the years go by much more enjoyably than they will without it.

Unconditional Love: This is love without requirements. The most common form of unconditional love is the love that parents feel for their children, and vice versa. It is a form of love that essentially means that you always have the other person’s best interest at heart. It is the love that spans all types of situations, and all types of relationships. Without unconditional love, NO RELATIONSHIP will last, no matter how much of the other types of love are present. And, in case you forgot, this applies to Self-Love too. Love yourself no matter what.

So, figure out who you are, and what you stand for, and embrace it. Put that best “you” out there and start forging relationships with people. Love yourself, and love others with your entire being, and your relationships will be successful, lasting, and meaningful.

Will Irvin is the author of Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship, available in paperback, hardcover, or as a downloadable pdf. For more information on the book, visit the book website at MissingPiecesTheBook.com

Will is also the Webmaster for Premier Dating Online, a valuable source for Online Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, and Dating Service Reviews. As an active member of the Online Dating Community, as well as the Online Social Networking Community in general, Will brings that same “street-level” perspective into online relationships, online etiquette, and human relationships in general.

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Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship – Part 5: Time

We’re all busy these days.  There are obligations around every corner.  There are jobs, families, children, social engagements, and various other things taking up little pieces of our time.  So who has time for a relationship?  Or more time to put into the relationship you’ve got?  The answer is, you do.

It’s all about choices.  You have to make time for things that are important, and relationships are one of the most important things there can be.  You may even have to learn to say no to some of the other obligations that you have once in a while.

Relationships are important, whether they be dating relationships, marriages, or friendships.  Jobs come and go, material possessions come and go, but meaningful relationships last forever.  So, make time to nurture your relationships.  They are important.

Making time can be hard to do sometimes.  There are only so many hours in the day.  That’s why you may have to learn to say no to some of your other obligations.  If you have something scheduled every day for everyone else in your life (and not yourself), maybe it’s time to start cutting some of them back.  I’m not saying you should drop everything and focus solely on your relationships, but I’m sure you could find some things that could be eliminated in your busy schedule.

Remember, relationships are important.  You have to make time to spend with that other person, for talking, sharing, activities, sex, whatever is lacking from the realationship that will help it grow.  So, spend time with your partner, getting to know them, nurturing the relationship, and the rewards will be endless.

Will Irvin is the author of Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship, available in paperback, hardcover, or as a downloadable pdf. For more information on the book, visit the book website at MissingPiecesTheBook.com

Will is also the Webmaster for Premier Dating Online, a valuable source for Online Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, and Dating Service Reviews. As an active member of the Online Dating Community, as well as the Online Social Networking Community in general, Will brings that same “street-level” perspective into online relationships, online etiquette, and human relationships in general.

Some Experiences in My First True Love

Everyone remembers their first true love. Perhaps this is because you did everything special for the first time together. Your first true love would be the first person you ever kissed for the first time. They are probably the ones that made your heart beat loud and fast every time you saw them around and when they touched your hands, you went speechless. They could also be the only ones who made everything stand still. Your first true love could have got you into a lot of trouble. The first time I ever disobeyed my parents was when my first true love came into my life.

My first true love taught me the most memorable of all lessons. I call him my first true love because I truly loved him. You might have noticed that I used the past tense here; this is because I am no longer with my first true love. It is very sad that he left, but let’s not get into that now. First, let me tell you what my true love taught me. My first true love taught me to be patient, understanding and all the good values of life. In fact, when I look back at my life with my first true love, there was never a day that went by without him not teaching me a valuable lesson.

My first true love taught me almost everything and though he is no longer with me, I will always live to appreciate it. Before I met him, I was selfish and self centered. Everything had to be mine. When my first true love came into my life, he slowly started teaching me about love. He made sure that I understood that there were different kinds of love. He taught me that love is never jealous and above all, it is never selfish. Without realizing it, I was learning from him. I was still the bad person that I was and one day he was gone!

My first true love left me, yes he left me. Even though he left, I still call him my first true love. This is because I do believe with all my heart that he was my first true. They say that your true love never leaves, they do. Sometimes you have to let someone go before they realize that you were actually important? That is what my first true love did to me. I never thought he was that important. After he left, I realized that he really was important and I was really hurt. The funny part about all the lessons I learnt from my true love is that. I realized that he was actually teaching me after he left. Before that, I did not see the lessons he was trying to put across. I was just too thick at that time to get it. The people who have come into my life after my first true love have had better treatment from me than my first true love. I look back at our love and wonder why it had to end, but I am not sorry, I learnt a lot from it.

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Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship – Part 6: Honesty

It often goes without saying, though it shouldn’t, that honesty is a key component of effective communication, which I have already stated repeatedly is the most important aspect of a successful relationship. I personally have a major pet peeve about liars, but I’ll try to present this topic objectively.Honest communication is far more effective than communication that contains even the smallest white lie.

You may be wondering why I’m even bothering to define what honesty is, but you may also be surprised to find out just how many people do not understand the concept, or don’t really care It is, however, quite simply, telling the truth in all situations This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to be honest in such a way as to be hurtful or mean, but there are sometimes ways to be honest without that happening.

Honesty with Tact

It is possible to be honest about certain little things without being hurtful and mean about it by using a little tact, or saying something in a way that’s still the truth, but not as hurtful Bear in mind, there is some truth to the saying that “truth hurts” and in some situations, there is no avoiding the ugly truth But, if it’s something as seemingly benign as “How do I look in this outfit?” or “How do you like my singing?”, you can respond in a way that’s less likely to cause hurt feelings.  Instead of saying you don’t like the outfit, tell them that you like the other outfit they tried on a little better than that one You may not like either one, particularly, but it’s really worth preserving someone’s feelings by phrasing it differently.

Honesty in Big Things

Now, when it comes to other issues in a relationship, such as your feelings toward someone, it is very important to be completely honest If you feel a certain way about someone, you should let them know Likewise, if you do not feel for them the way they feel for you, it is even more important to let them know this, too If you do not, when, not if, the relationship ends, there will be a lot of bitterness and anger, and there’s just no reason for that.

It is also very important to be honest regarding other issues that come up in a relationship, such as financial matters, raising children (where applicable), and household responsibilities So many times, couples aren’t honest with each other about how things are going financially, whether it is going well or poorly Either way, it’s going to come to light soon enough, and it’s going to cause major problems in the relationship.

Say things aren’t going so well, and only one partner is working It may be necessary for the other partner to get a job, but the one who is working has too much pride to admit that they aren’t doing an adequate job or providing for the family This is a recipe for disaster, and will ultimately result in the family becoming even more financially unstable It’s just a matter of time.

Another frighteningly common problem is parents that do not let each other know what’s going on with the children A child may confide in one of the parents about something truly sensitive, and in that case, a measure of restraint may be called for You can still be honest with your partner by telling them that you cannot break your child’s confidence If you don’t keep their confidence, you’ve broken your bond of honesty with them, which is just as bad.  I do think, however, that parents should talk to each other about how they would handle certain situations, and stick to that when they talk to their children Otherwise, the children will soon figure out that their parents really don’t stand for anything solid, and will look elsewhere for influences.

Dishonesty

Dishonesty, or lying, is like a plague to any relationship If someone will lie to you about one thing, they will lie to you about anything And one lie often leads to another, which leads to two more, and so on Liars have to continue to make up new lies to cover up the lies they have already told, and before long, they aren’t able to tell for themselves what is the truth and what is a lie.

The Good Stuff

Being honest is not only about addressing problems, or things that are bothering you You should also be honest with your partner about the things they do that are good, or any things you like about them If you like the way they are dressed that day, tell them If you really appreciated something they did around the house, or for the family, don’t downplay how much it means to you Tell them, and you will be surprised how much of a positive impact it has on the relationship.

Why This Is So Important

Dishonesty is, like I said, a plague on any relationship It will ruin any relationship more quickly than anything else Dishonesty is the foundation of all betrayal, violence, and other unkind (or even despicable) acts that occur in relationships On the other hand, a good, steady dose of honesty will boost any relationship, and will lift up both partners Honesty in communication will make both partners closer and will only improve the relationship, more than you could possibly imagine.

Will Irvin is the author of Missing Pieces: 21 Secrets of a Successful Relationship, available in paperback, hardcover, or as a downloadable pdf. For more information on the book, visit the book website at MissingPiecesTheBook.com

Will is also the Webmaster for Premier Dating Online, a valuable source for Online Dating Tips, Relationship Advice, and Dating Service Reviews. As an active member of the Online Dating Community, as well as the Online Social Networking Community in general, Will brings that same “street-level” perspective into online relationships, online etiquette, and human relationships in general.

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