How can I get my ex-girlfriend out of my head?
Filed in Questions & Answers on Jul.02, 2009
We were together for two years and she broke up with me four months ago. I have had to see her nearly every day in school and frequently over the weekends because we share a lot of the same friends.
I still like her and I want her back but I reckon I just have to go on. But I can’t help thinking about her sometimes. How can I get her out of my head?
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July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Do NOT stay friends with her. I know it’s hard to let her go completely but it will be much harder to get over her if she is being a friend, believe me. If she doesn’t like you or despises you, because that’s what happens most of the time after a relationship, then it will be much simpler to get over her. Avoid making eye contact and just ignore her when you walk by her. Try doing things with other people and over girls such as going to cinema. A excellent thing to do would be to become close friends with a girl or a few girl and talk to them a lot about all sorts of meaningless things, MSN is brilliant for this. Talk to them about music and what they like and question her questions and get into deep conversations. The only down side to this is that they may reckon that you like them because of this so be careful.
I do not recommend getting into another relationship. This will just cause pain to them because you won’t be committed and it will make a lot of pressure on yourself. Hurting other people will not help you. Friends are the best thing in times like this. It will take time but eventually you will get over her.
Hope this helps
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
just find yourself a new girlfriend or spend time with other girls then youll realize there are plenty of other better girls then you ex
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
I know this sucks but time is what is going to heal. If you know that you aren’t going to go back out with each other, try dating again. Nothing serious just do something fun.
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
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July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Go clubbing and have a excellent time i promise you that you will get her out of your mind completely. Dont reckon about any girls that you like just take some time and just have fun. NO relationships unless you really like a girl.
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
just try and find another girl to occupy your time. slowly you will start to reckon about the new girl more than the ancient one. and your ex broke up with you.. so there must have been something that made her not want to be with you anymore. just reckon about this. there is plenty of "fish" in the sea.
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Awww, i know exactly where you are coming from. I had the same thing happen to me a couple of months ago. My boyfriend of a year and a half and I broke up and i could not get him out of my head. I know how hard it is, and i struggled for months- sometimes i still have days where i break down. But it does get better, you just have to make sure that there is closure. Are there any hard feelings between you two over the break up? If so you should clear them up, forgiveness is a huge part of getting over her. And if you aren’t comfortable being around her, tell your friends that maybe you guys could just hang out in other places with other friends until you feel a bit better. In my opinion and going by my experiences, if she doesn’t want to be with you then it just cant work out. It sucks and is going to be terribly hard. But you just have to remember that there are so many people out there for you, and this was a excellent learning experience. There is no sure way to get her out of your head, she will be there for a long while, but you can make sure you go on by getting out there and re-finding yourself. Don’t worry, there is plenty of fish in the sea, just cherish the excellent times and it will all work out sooner or later. Excellent luck
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Quit hanging out with her on the weekends. Tell her you need space. Tell her you can’t get over her and if she ever felt anything for you she will leave you alone. Tell her not to talk to you/text you/pay any form of attention to you until you get over her. Hook up with another girl and when your ready you guys can still be friends.
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July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
i reckon you should stop dating for away until you reckon your ready again or just date anther girl but nothing serious so i you get dumped by her you won’t be that heart broken.
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
kill her man.. or you could try to get her out with a huge spoon, but i reckon first option is betterr.. no seriously, youll get over it dont worry a similar thing happened to me not so long ago, and now Im with a girl that makes me a thousand times more pleased! so cheer upp! >D
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Try asking another girl out that you’re a bit fond of…or someone you could see your self having a relationship with. It will surprise you how soon those feelings as well as the memory of your ex float away…