How can you win your ex girlfriend back? if she still has feelings!?
Filed in Questions & Answers on Jul.18, 2009
I dated a girl for a few months we were really close, we broke up over something really stupid and what not. We still hang out and stuff usually happens! i just dont know how to date her again, she says im not this and im not that, but she still says she has really strong feelings for me! am i more than a booty call? lol
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July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
I’ve been there and done that as well, I know what you are going through! Some guys reckon, why in the hell would you be pissed about being a booty call? But if you have feelings for someone it gets kind of hard. I’ve always found that I want what I can’t have, and woman are the same way.
If you act like you don’t care and you’ve went on than usually the girl will start to get feelings of rejection and want what she can’t have, which is you.
I read an article that had a couple excellent tips on how to win back your ex that I reckon you may find helpful. Check it out…
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Get-Your-Ex-Back—Easily-Win-Them-Back-Even-If-They-Never-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Again!&id=1773029
Hope everything works out for you!
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
tell her you like her vagina
it will work
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
You dont want to man!
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Don’t do it. Your heart will get shattered worse than before. I suggest you just go on and let her go. It’s hard but you will feel much better in the long run.
Excellent Luck
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
you don’t "win" nobody, don’t treat her like a trophy, we despise that.
if you see you still have feelings (being with her in a relationship) and having things in common with her, then go for it.
but if it’s all a game of ego and just to feel that you can have her whenever you want, then don’t. You wouldn’t like somebody doing that to you.
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
she doesnt no what she wants and either do you because if you did you would’nt ”do stuff” with her, be straight up with her da next tiime something nearly happens and say look were is this going??because if you get a new girlfriend and introduce her to your ex seen as your mates how would she feel hurt but she sed it was’nt wrkin so why does stuff happen dont let it!!
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
You are lucky Xmas is approaching and usually people are nicer. I believe that if there are still feelings than one should go with them, life is so small, it is a pity to worry over what will happen or to weep over spilled milk.
what happened happened FULLSTOP, what will happen no one knows… but the feelings you feel for each other are sure… so live with what you have today and dont lose it for something that might or might not happen in the future.
Tell her your feelings and start over!
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
If she wants you to be something other than you are, it’ll all end in tears, no matter how ’strong’ her feelings apparently are. I would go on and find someone who likes you for yourself.
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
okay this is what you do tell your ex that you really care about her if you do though and tell her how you feel about her.
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Most girls have distress separating physical like from emotional like. If you keep going over there and being intimate with her, she’s not going to be able to stop herself. She will fall back in like with you and be very attached.
Want to test it? Tell her you’ve met someone else and you won’t be coming over to see her anymore. Then tell her goodbye and walk away. Be hard for her to find and win back. My guess is she will be putty in your hands.
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Hi Jimmy she really don’t want to be in a relationship so basically it is a booty call and she wants her cake and eat it to and plus she like it the way it is she want to just to keep you around because you must be doing something she like and more than likely it’s the stuff that’s happening that’s keeping her around so you should make your go play her game date someone else to since you and her are not together and she how she feel about that and then see if she want you back and if she din’t you can still be her friend but if you are looking for a relationship go on because with her it’s not gonna happen.
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Been there. Right now you are taking a test. You can win her back if you say the right things, do the right things, and use your brain to interpret what she reallys wants to say but won’t. Being a woman, I will be honest with you. We want you to figure out what we reckon is the obvious, but men don’t reckon like women. Being honest, men reckon on the level of a child. Meaning, free minded, innocent, and willing to accept whatever as long as it doesn’t affect you personally.
Advice – to see if she really wants you back, the next time you hang out, show her no affection, if you are, stop having sex with her, when she questions you to go somewhere, tell her you have somewhere to go and you’ll have to take a rain check. A woman craves quality time and does not like rejection from her man. If she acts like a ass, then she still thinks you are her man.
The same way we do you, you have to do us. Ignore us. But this can be tough with a woman. Apparently God made us with a strong backbone and the minute that we don’t feel needed, we go on immediately. We are pleasing creatures, and we like attention and affection.
Give her your last plea, if she doesn’t want it, they hanging out and doing other stuff together is only gonna continue to be hard on your and give you mixed feelings and the incorrect message. Don’t let her play with your head. We do that often just to get what we want for a small while. Be careful because you very well might be being used as a transition until she finds someone else. She just might be the type who doesn’t like to be alone. Excellent luck.
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
As long as you got feelings for her and she has the same feelings for you, just go ahead and try dating her again.
1 – What are her likes and dislikes?
2 – Were there any promises that you made but did not do? Try to surprise her by fulfilling that promise.
3 – Being romantic never fails.
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
ive just got back with my ex after 2 months apart. we chose to start from scratch as if we had just met. if you really care for each other the keyword is compromise.each must give a small bit of themselves to the other without losin your individuallity. like will out. excellent luck
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Dude,
In everything, It’s all about confidence…
Read this small article, and you will find out
Excellent Luck and Pleased Holidays
July 18th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Despise to break it to you, but it sounds like she might be playing games with you. She’s probably getting a kick out of it while having her own ego stroked.
What I recommend is turning it around on her and have her be the one asking how she can get back with YOU, lol.
Women are weird creatures and will always be thinking one of two things in a relationship: "Do I really want to be with him?" or "Does he really want to be with me?" Make sure it’s the latter, and she’ll treat you like a king.
Check out the blog post I’ve made about this subject that I’ll link you to below. I’m not sure what your specific situation is, but it helps out most guys in your situation.