How do I Save our Relationship?
Filed in Questions & Answers on Jul.06, 2009
something happened (not cheating) and things aren’t the same. He looks at me different and idk what to do. Its rare that i find someone i really like. We’re going to dinner tonight…how do i fix it! help!
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July 6th, 2009 at 8:44 am
Because you weren’t too specific about the situation, I can’t give very specific advice. Therefore, the only thing I can really suggest is to just talk, talk, talk and talk it out. Communicate and really know each others feelings, and try to come up with thoughts for solving whatever problem is in front of you. If you don’t talk about it until it’s fixed, it’s just going to be the elephant in the room.
July 6th, 2009 at 8:44 am
u must have done something or maybe hes bored with u
July 6th, 2009 at 8:44 am
If it hasn’t been confronted, that should be addressed first, other than that, sometimes time will let it heal, and be back to normal. it also depends the severity of the thing that happened. if it was severe, it could take a long time. If trust is in the mix… then it could too be a long time before trust can be regained. in my relationship there came a time where he lied to me, throe’s still some doubt in my mind that he will lie again to me. (that happened 5 months ago.) Talk it out first, and work together on how to repair the relationship. A counselor may need to get involved to repair the relationship. excellent luck !
July 6th, 2009 at 8:44 am
Get your Man Back
Are you feeling like everything you do pushes your man away further? Is this describing your situation to a tee? Are you asking "What can I do to get my man back" at every turn? Here are some tips that will greatly improve your chances of getting back together with your ex boyfriendor ex husband.Obviously right now you are serious about saving or rekindling your relationship, which is what led you to this blog in the first place. But if you are feeling overly nervous to get your man back, you may be behaving in the incorrect way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure.
Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse. Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop! If you are asking yourself " What can I do to get my man back", then you need to stop doing these things right now.So What can I do to get my man back? Follow this strategy instead.
You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Start by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex boyfriend, you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your ancient ways. During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him. You may become mysterious to him in some ways, because he is not sure what you are doing or feeling. this is really something that can work in your favor. Now your ex is in a position to really miss you, which is not possible when you are smothering him. You must remember that the key to this strategy and repairing a break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it. If you are wondering " What can I do to get my man back", now you should have a honestly basic understanding on how common mistakes can be avoided. Once you implement this basic strategy you can restore a balance and allow your ex to remember why he loved you in the first place. Just keep yourself grounded and avoid smothering him. Make yourself appear mysterious and he will be reminded why heloved you in the first place. Play hard to get (don’t over do it) and let him make the first go, and you will come out on top. And then you will stop asking "What can I do to get my man back"
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