How do you save a relationship
Filed in Questions & Answers on Jul.05, 2009
we’ve been together 2 years he looks like he lost it for me. a complete 180. I doubt he’s cheating. what can i do to save us.
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July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Okay, 2 years is too early to ‘lose it’ for somebody. Time to spice things up in the sex department. Sexy scented oils (I like cinnamon), hot lingerie, role playing, sex toys (visit the adult shop) and maybe some soft porn. The more hot sex you have together, the more you’ll want, and the more you want, the more you’ll have (my fingers are starting to hurt) and the more you have the closer you’ll become.
Get it?
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
More details please… could be anything
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
You place it in the bank.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Get closer to him like kiss him often hold him make him feel special things like that it helped me
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Communicate.
Communicate.
Oh, and communicate. Don’t guess "he looks like he lost it for me", find out for sure.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
talk to him and let him know how you feel. he may feel the same way too. all relationships get into a rut every now and then but you have to communicate. reckon of ways to spice it up.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
anal
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
show no interest…make him wonder about u
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Dont try to be the hero…its simpler said than done but if he is losing interest there is small that you can do to keep him. Besides, if he doesnt like you for who you are, then who needs him?
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Unfortunately, both have to want to save it. One person can’t just save it.
It’s like, if you are the only one that wants to save it, it’s like going through life handcuffed to a dead body, you’ll be there and maybe able to walk around, but you will be alone and have this weight you’ll be responsible for.
Go and make yourself the best person you can be without this deadbeat, and then later find someone who will adore you.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Act disinterested in him. Make him jealous. Then be really clingy all of the sudden for like 1 day, and then go back to being disinterested. The spontaneousness and mysteriousness will intrigue him. He will like you once more.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
i reckon you guys should talk it out and tell him how you feel and that you reckon you guys are losing touch
be completely honest and make sure you guys have nothing in betwee you holding you back from being the way you used to be.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
all you can do is talk to him . Tell him you are concerned about the way things are going and what can the both of you do to get it back on track. I wouldn’t question him if he wants to get it back..just go on the assumption that you are going to work on it.
See what he says. I have no thought why he is doing a turn around..it might be he feels you don’t care anymore or that he can’t talk to you or something…but you need to talk or you will never know.
YOU ALONE cannot save you…it has to be the both of you working on things….and hopefully he feels lost and needs you too.
excellent luck…
Susanna
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
If you reckon things are worth salvaging, have a heart to heart with him and tell him how you feel. Maybe he’ll agree, and maybe he won’t. If he doesn’t, then you don’t have a choice but to start the process of moving on. If he wants out, then there is nothing you can do.
Excellent luck.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
You two should have a serious conversation so that you know where the relationship stands and how far you want it to go
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
talk to him.
see if he still feels the same way and question yourself if you still feel the same way about him.
just do alotta talking and find out what the problem is
he could be under stress, have alott on his mind or it could be something else
i reckon all you can do to save your relationship is to talk to him
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
I’ve seen this happen in my own relationship….it seems to fizzle out and I get so torn up inside and then all of a sudden we are back like nothing ever happened. Guys are emotional too you know and maybe he is just going thru something. Hang in.. Be nice to him. Like him and be patient.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
you need to communicate with him.. go for a walk and talk.. do not get mad if he opens up and tells you what you don’t wanna hear or he won’t open up to you again.. try to be understanding and just tell him how you feel
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
He looks like he lost it. I do not know how someone can lose it by looks. If a man changes his personality and what he does he is either cheating or ready to leave. Most of the time it is too late to fix stuff. Question him.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
EXCELLENT SEX LMAO BUT REALLY WHEN YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT LONG YOU TEND TO GET BORED AND YOU JUST HAVE TO END IT, MAYBE HE IS CHEATING ON YOU LOOKIN FOR FUN.
GO TO PARTIES TOGETHER AND DANCE WILDLY WITH HIM THEN HAVE SEX, EXCELLENT SEX. LATER DONT SEE HIM FOR A DAY THEN CALL HIM. I MEAN TWO STEPS FORWARD AND ONE STEP BAK, SO YOU DONT SOFFOCATE.
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Make you, a person he just wants to be around! Be fascinating. Tease him a small. If you are wearing a small skirt/dress at home, just bend over near him, so he sees you don’t have any panties on. Dress nicely while at home, all the time. Tell him you like him. Visit http://www.bringbackthespark.com – they have fantastic thoughts to keep him interested in you, and they give you advice every week, for very small cost.
Ignore the advice about being disinterested in him – that’s just plain dumb! Also, the guy above says you get bored after 2 yrs together – I really disagree! Boredom only sets in if you let it! Don’t let it.
July 5th, 2009 at 11:53 am
After you’re together a while, the fire is supposed to turn into a warm glow that flares up sometimes. If it just goes cold, some of the things it could be are:
- he could be upset about something connected to you that he
hasn’t brought into the open yet
- he could be distracted by something you don’t know about
- he could be upset about something not connected to you
- he might not care any more
It’s up to you to do some (nice) detective work & talk to him, try to notice or find out what’s behind it. Some people don’t like the direct approach – & that’s not excellent or terrible, it just is what it is. You know him – use whatever approach works for him and you.
If nothing works, then whether it’s about you or not, you won’t be able to do anything. In that case, all you can do is just choose every day if you’re willing to be supportive & wait for him to resolve it himself. It could turn around quickly or after a while – even several years.
But you need & deserve closeness & achievement & self-choice too, so remember you also have to get your own needs met.