How to save my relationship?
Filed in Questions & Answers on Jul.13, 2009
I’m sorry I know this is in the incorrect cat. but I’d really like some mens opinions!!
4 years ago I lost the like of my life because I wouldn’t have children.
The pain from losing him has NEVER left me. Now, my new like has chose that he wants children more than anything now. I would really die if I lost this man too, I cant go through that pain again. How can I get around this?
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July 13th, 2009 at 2:03 am
You seem to be operating under the mistaken impression that you can have a excellent relationship by sacrificing your identity, your beliefs, and your values. That is precisely the way to ruin a excellent relationship. In order to have a excellent relationship, you have to first find someone who is compatible with you as you are and with the values that you have. Since you do not want children, the only excellent relationship you can have is with someone else who likewise doesn’t want them.
If you are in a relationship with a man who wants children, then you need to tell him that that is a deal-breaker and that, if he can’t accept your intelligent, healthy desire to live a pleased child-free life, then you must dump him first before he can dump you and make you feel guilty.
You have a right to be pleased and happily child-free. No one should have to make babies that they don’t want.
July 13th, 2009 at 2:03 am
I don’t reckon there is any way of getting aorund it. I reckon you need to be direct and honest with yourself and the guy. COmmunication is really the best thing you can do. Talk to him about what you want and clarify your reasons and let him talk too and tell you how he feels about it.
July 13th, 2009 at 2:03 am
Can I question why you won’t have children?
July 13th, 2009 at 2:03 am
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July 13th, 2009 at 2:03 am
Existance of Relationship either your like one or anyone is really different from a relation between husband and wife.So far i reckon you are talking about the relation with your husband. If you are ubable to give birth then clarify with your like one and let him to discuss with doctor togetherly with you so that you gusy can come in to a solution which will relax your mental seekness or scare from you side. Also try to improve yourself by removing weekness.
Birth is a natural gift from God.
Excellent Luck.