I’m desperate….would someone please help me save my relationship???
My boyfriend and I have been together 2+ years and don’t get me wrong we do have our good times…but lately it seems like it’s getting bad…I don’t want to break up with him…but we’ve both decided we’re unhappy with the way things are going…He’s very subborn and I’m all about communication…the only problem is…he doesn’t like to hear he’s done anything wrong but I need him to know how badly I’m feeling and how much I want us to work out….any advice on talking to him in a way I can get his attention without him taking the immediate defensive position would be great…I’m so tired of every "sit down talk" turning into a fight….I really need him to understand that I want to make this work and I am willing to take responsibility for my negative impacts on the relationship…I know I’m not perfect but I’m willing to try to overcome some things I need to work on to save this relationship…I need to get him in the same mind frame….because I know he doesn’t wanna lose me either