What can I do to get my boyfriend to understand how I feel and try to save our relationship?
Filed in Questions & Answers on Jul.13, 2009
I have been dating this man for over 2 years. I have found him lying to me and I found out. I questioned him about it and he keeps telling me I keep asking him the same questions. How do I go about telling him how I feel and what I need without asking the same questions? I am trying to save the relationship by telling him how I feel and what I need from him. Am I doing the right thing? I need some advice on what to try and what women have done. Please help me if you can.
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July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
this is a hard one..cause men can be so hard headed..you won’t find many that listen..ive been married for six years and he still sometimes won’t listen to me when i try to tell him my feelings…he’s quit the lying though..try sitting him down and telling him that if he likes you he won’t lie to you cause you can’t trust someone who lies to you and let him no that if you catch him again you may have to end this…i no thats not what you want but if he cares about you this will scare him to were he does’nt wanna lie…try to make every thing small and sweet..guys don’t like long talks they feel there being lectured..excellent luck…its hard cause men just don’t wanna listen …
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
tell him how u feel and what you need and if he dont listen leave him its not ur fault its his for not listening
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
sorry cant help you
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
I reckon you should just simply sit him down tell him what you are feeling straight up. If you have really caught him in a lie and you are SURE…tell him you know. And if he doesnt have the decency to tell you the truth and hear your point of view about the situation and i dont reckon he has enough respect for you and you shouldnt waste your time with him.
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
What is it that you found out? Is he cheating?
Simply tell him how you feel, don’t question questions. Tell him straight that you know the truth, and how it makes you feel, and what you want from him.
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
Some shit ain’t worth saving baby ! and if it’s real you wouldn’t have to be asking you’ll be knowing !!!
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
if he keeps lying to you even after you’ve caught and told him how you feel, i say throw him out!! he’s not worth it. you can’t place all of your like in a loser. in no time, you’ll find someone and he’ll treat you the way you SHOULD be treated.
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
I’ve been there. I lived with a man for 2 years and I caught him in a lie. I didn’t want to leave him because in my mind at that time, I thought I wannted to salvage the past 2 years- it seemed like if we broke up it would have just been a huge waste of time.
But, I chose to visit my parents who lived in another state. WHile I was there, I was able to take a excellent look at the miserable life I had with that man from a distance. It helped to be removed from the situation before I could see it.
I never went back to him, although he begged me, and I’ve been a more pleased and SANER person since. I even met a wonderful man who treats me like his goddess, and have been married to him for 6 years.
If your boyfriend does not make you pleased, and he’s lying to you- maybe you should take stock of your life and choose if you want your future to include him. How pleased are you now? Do you weep more days than you can count? I wish much happiness for you and hope you find it.
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
first of all if he’s lying then..thats a huge problem….he should never lie…. if he lies about one thing then how much more do you reckon that hes not telling you the truth about… you should really talk to him about EVERYTHING!!!
DO NOT PLACE UP WITH THE LIES!!!
July 13th, 2009 at 7:55 am
Some once told me that the guy that you like and likes you back will always listen to you so sit down you know and just try to be as truthful as you can and tell him from the tiniest feeling to the largest and he might get made but he should had never lied to you becuase trust is the largest part of the relationship and if he try to say why you didnt you tell me earlyer just say becuase i confussed by something and tell him come clean and we can go on together or apart.