What can i do to get my ex-girlfriend back?
Filed in Questions & Answers on Jul.10, 2009
Plz help i like her so much. She said she liked it better when we were friends. But i liked it better when we were going out. What can i do to get her back. PLZ HELP ME!!!!!
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July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
Well, first you have to know what she had said to you. It will do nothing other than make the situation worse if you coerce her in any way, by that I mean plead to her about getting back with you.
She made to you a request to simply be friends. As someone who cares for her, it should be your goal to respect her decisions.
Showing that you are more than willing to respect her decisions will certainly affect her opinions about you. She will be pleased to see that you respect her, and the decisions she makes.
Although you may want to be with her, that does not mean that she is required to be with you. Showing her you have life outside of her can incite intrigue from her, nonetheless improving your odds of getting back with her.
I do hope this helps you, excellent luck!
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
if u want her back so terribly, do whatever she wants… that always works =]
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
Don’t do whatever she wants!! like the answer says below, or else then you may be more of a tool. Keep your distance, so then she may come back to you. Maybe do something cute for her, like buy her dinner or ice-cream. lol. but excellent luck man!!
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
It’s tough when you really like someone and they don’t feel the same way. That’s what it appears to be here.
Seems like things were a lot more fun when you guys were just friends. Maybe she felt less pressure when you were friends, so back off a bit.
Some times when you like someone sooooo much, you smother them or impose too much. Lighten up.
Show her you have a life outside of her. And for God’s sake, don’t end up trying to get back with her by doing whatever she wants. She wont respect you.
I know it will be tough but stay away from her for awhile. This will intrigue her enough so that she may end up coming back to you.
If you need more help, seek out this resource below, it really helped me mend things with my significant other.
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
She’s giving you a clear message when she says she liked it better when you were friends. You need to identify what was different when you were friends in comparison to when you were going out.
Get the friendship going and place her at ease. You never know what might happen.
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
She is more into you as friends so if you could possibly get her back, then you need to change her mind on that. Do something really romantic for her like writing a song for her, or bringing her a box of chocolates or flowers when shes sad. Something creative that shows you care. Be flirty when your with her, and act like your her best friend. Call or text her a lot (as flirty friends). Be very caring, question her to go on a friendly date to the movies with you and be very sweet. (like opening her car door, letting her wear your jacket, paying, buying her a drink, etc.) Hopefully she will soon relise it was a mistake leaving you. When your both looking in each others eyes after awhile of ‘friendly dates’ tell her how you feel and that you would do anything for her. (take her hands while you say this) And then question her to be yours again.
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
There must be a reason why she thinks its better when you two are friends.
You need to figure out why. I read a blog that clarified what you can do to get her back.
I’ll leave the link below for you to read.
I hope this helps…
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
The Top 5 Things That Prevent You From Winning an Unrequited Like Or an Ex.
Being really into someone who isn’t into you is
all too common and can be very painful. You
want to win her over but you just don’t know
how. Well first, you have to stop what you’re
doing now to turn things around. Here are the
top 5 things that guys do to make an unrequited
like or an ex stay that way.
1. You’re too needy. I bet you’ve heard this before
a million times…but what does it mean exactly?
It means you are letting her know that you reckon
she’s above your level. No one wants to be around
people who are lower than them on the food chain.
Have you ever had a male friend who was just too
keen to please you or hang out with you and was
desperate and needy a small? It’s kinda creepy and
makes you not want to hang out with him. Same with
women.
2. You’re too weak. No I’m not talking about muscles
here, but a personality trait. You let her walk all
over you and don’t speak up for yourself. Women
want a strong man. It’s not so much that nice guys
end last and jerks get all the women…but weak
men end last and strong guys get all the women.
3. Your voice and body language aren’t showing
sexuality. So many times when you’re really into
someone you get a small worried of them and worried
of them rejecting you and so don’t express your
right intentions and your masculine sexuality. This
is normal, but it will not get you to where you want
to be at all.
4. She knows she’s won you over completely.
Women like a challenge. You are not a challenge
at all. She’s already won you over completely and
she knows it.
5. You don’t reckon you deserve her. How you act on
the outside comes from what you reckon and feel on
the inside.
If you’ve been behaving in any of the above manners
or any other kind of behavior that has caused her
to not be interested you can bet that the cause is
in your own mind and your self esteem. Having an
unrequited like can be very painful and confusing
at the same time. Stopping the above behaviors will
immediately increase your chances with her.
I wish you the best of luck.
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
Here is a fantastic website on how to get your ex back: http://www.exbackguides.com/
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
The tips on getting your ex back are:
1. The first thing you should do is write down all the terrible things that happened in your relationship. Write down what caused the break. Also, write down what you may have done incorrect. After you have completed this, go ahead and write down some possible solutions to the problems.
This will prove to your ex that you really care about them and the relationship.
2. Another tip on how to get an ex back after a breakup is to let them know that you agree with the break up. This might be hard for you to do. And I know it seems like it’s counter productive. But it’s very effective and will work. When you let your ex know that you agree with the break up, you’re going to make them want you.
Instead of you pushing and forcing them to come back to you, your ex will know question you if they can come back.
3. The third thing you need is plot. Your plot should consists of what to say to your ex, when to question them out, what to say when you meet up with them, and when to meet up with them. This will ensure you that you won’t ruin your chances of getting back with your ex.
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
im going through the same thing…
my girlfriend broke up with me a couple days ago..
and we were going out for a year and 6 months,,
and damn i really like her and miss her..
and she doesnt care…. and its hard to belive
cause we were both really in like and in to eachother
i feel ur pain man..
we just have 2 keep our distance for a bit..
and let them have there space..
and hope that theyll come 2 there sences…
dont call her or text her a lot…..
i was kinda doing that and i figured out that just
pisses them off.. and theyll ignore us more..
so leter have her space.. then question her out.. and hope it works
July 10th, 2009 at 2:01 am
Write a prayer.