What should I do when I hangout with my ex-girlfriend if I want to get back with her?
Filed in Questions & Answers on Jul.07, 2009
My girlfriend broke-up with me a couple of weeks ago. She said that she just didnt feel the same about me as she did 5 months ago when we started dating. Although I saw some signs I was still shocked and just ignored for a while. She invited me over wednseday to hangout with her and her friend. I imagine its just as friends but how should i act?
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July 7th, 2009 at 4:50 am
Sounds like you’ve got a excellent handle on the situation since you imagine she’s inviting you over as a friend.
And I reckon you’re right – you’re no longer a boyfriend in her mind. You’ve now fallen into the "friend" zone with her. You simply act like a friend – not a boyfriend. You act with her the same way you would act with her friend.
If you still have feelings for her and want to get her back as a girlfriend then you should have no contact with her at all – at least in the beginning.
July 7th, 2009 at 4:50 am
act like a friend.
wouldn’t you rather have her in your life as a friend then nothing at all
July 7th, 2009 at 4:50 am
Act normal don’t act like you still want her BUT DON’T BE RUDE!!!!! Try and talk to her. just be yourself
July 7th, 2009 at 4:50 am
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg
on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but
many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring
could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your
spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk
honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more
serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a
blog that has more information on some of what I’ve been writing about. If
you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it.
http://howtogetmyexback1.blogspot.com/
Like is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when
you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but like
isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of like may
just mean you need to spice things up a small or that you were never in
like in the first place. Don’t just get out of a marriage just because you
don’t reckon you like the person anymore.
July 7th, 2009 at 4:50 am
Maybe she is testing you to see if you’ll try and get back together. I’d say just act like you would if it was any other friend. This will show how mature you are (even if on the inside you’re dying to get back together).
She may be surprised that you act so nice and friendly and she might be the one to question to get back together eventually.
As someone said it’s best to have her in your life than nothing at all which means there’s more of a chance to get back together.
If I were you I’d try and reckon about how you may have changed for her to not feel the same way. If you find out you can then try to improve on those things. She’ll see that without you having to say look i’m changing for you let’s get back together.
You can’t change your ex girlfriend so it’s best to concentrate on what you can do!