what should i tell my ex to get him back?
we broke up because i thought he was cheatin on me, because the day before i dumped him i was making a very special breakfast for him, he lied to me saying that he couldnt come to see me because his mom took his car to go shopping, i believed him at first but i had the doubt, so 5 mins later i went to his house, and his freakin car was there parked, i got mad, i called him, and some woman answered, and it didnt sound like his mom!! i hang up rigth away, i was desilucionated cause i despise lies, so from that day i chose not to ever talked to him, for being such a lier and cheating on me, and to try to forget about him i quit my job, because we were both working there, found another job, went to another apartment to redo my life, and i met this guy but it didnt work out, because i still like him, so i broke up with the guy, and called my ex, after six months of not seeing him, we saw again each other, and i told him why i left him, and we tried to fix things again, i told him about the guy i met, but that i broke up with, and we were gona go back cause he proved me he wasnt with another woman,but it didnt happen because, the other guy came looking for me, then my ex thought i was still going out with him, my ex made a whole huge deal, and now hes doing the same thing i did to him, now hes making up somethin in his head, that im playing with him….and thats not how things are happenig right now, i want to get back with him, but he thinks im still with the other dude!!! i dont know what to do, how to clarify to him, that im not anymore with that guy because i want to go back with him….please someone help me….i need advise…..he doesnt answer my calls, he says we are going talk but he doesnt talk to me…..what can i do to fix this mess that i and only i made up?
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July 2nd, 2009 at 9:14 pm
Winning back your ex boyfriend is not simple at all. It is a lot simpler to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the incorrect things, your chances increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back try following these steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove your negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Terrible thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t pester your ex boyfriend. Guys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to relax by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may start to really miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be fantastic to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When looking excellent on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling excellent on the inside you will be confident and pleased. When you’re confident and pleased, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
You can find other fantastic tips on how to get your ex boyfriend back in this useful article:
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