Should You Take Your Ex Back? Get Your Ex Back!
Filed in Videos on Nov.08, 2009
www.lovein30days.com Shay Your Date Diva shares the top five conditions that demonstrate that it MAY be ok to take your Ex back.
www.lovein30days.com Shay Your Date Diva shares the top five conditions that demonstrate that it MAY be ok to take your Ex back.
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
what makes you so sure he is waiting?
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
yea right, he is sleeping with someone.
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
that still doesnt make it ok. ive been with a guy for 3 years and im still a virgin and hes never cheated. men can control their sexual urges especially when hes in love. he can get a mag and wack off and realease his sexual tension.
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
I have a question: If woman are not giving their man any?? what advice do you have for two people following God’s word to wait til marriage and he slips up and cheats?
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
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November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
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November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Instead of worrying about getting a man back who you likely drove away…take personal accountability to what you could have done different or at least ended it on civil terms.
That way whatever your “programming” that causes you to fail @ relationships won’t be an ongoing issue. Start over with a clean slate.
Also Give yourself time to get your mind and spirit right vs jumping from man to man–like a monkey swinging from vines with luggage on its back.
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
thanks so much for this video! i messaged about this as my ex wants me back but has only shown words and not taken any actions to show he wants me, such as stupid things like saying he will call within the week and its been over 2 weeks! I am letting him go for good now, ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
do u think its right to return expensive gifts after a breakup.. coz i think that will help me move on..or it just lessen the oppurtunity to take my ex back…
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
u gonna send by email or is in your youtube???
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Move on and give your heart time to heal. Check out my how to get over your ex video. If you email me I can send it to you.
SYDD
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
But move on and stay crying move on and try a new relationship?What is the best way to move on?
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
For some ppl it takes a few months, for others a few years but ultimately YOU choose how long you will hurt for and hold onto a man who did not deserve you. The longer you hold on, the longer it will take to find your soul mate…so not worth it. CHOOSE to move on!
With Love
SYDD
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
how long you think a person rtake to forget an ex when him his the love of her life?
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Most ppl do NOT change. Do not hold your breath on that happening. Yes you may be down at first, but if you LET GO and allow yourself to heal, you will move on and get better. The point is to NEVER settle!
SYDD
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
but people change or not?so what u think is bether be depressed because u r without him or be fine with some stress because u r with him?
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Sweetie,
I do not believe in taking an ex back. It took awhile to learn this lesson but once I did better came into my life!
SYDD
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
i like the video but did u apply for u all this rules?
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
This is a very good video. 9 times out of 10, if you two broke up, it was for a good reason. Very rarely in my opinion, does going back to an ex end up well. Every now and again, you do have people that just got together too young etc. but if the break up was due to abuse, cheating, lying etc. then stay away and DO NOT return.
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Oh my gosh, you are so right on the money! I just had this occur with my ex. His problem was not making his situations better! I feel like he could be a great guy some day with real counseling, but he had some serious issues that just don’t change over a course of eight months. I would love to take him back, but there has to be serious and obvious change that he has willingly made! He never cheated, he was an awesome boyfriend, but his temper and his constant mopping around just drove me away!
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
your daughter is the most lucky girl there is she’ll have you to guide her thoroughly along the way shay you know your stuff
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
This is a bomb video,thanks for the great advice .Your always on point ! Thanks
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
no way! my ex is kaput, history. he wuz a major asswipe
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Usually it is better to start over with someone new lol!
November 8th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
with all these conditions, seems better to just start over with someone brand new